12 Signs It’s Time To Downsize

Our lives are dynamic, changing things, and it can be hard to predict our future needs. What once may have been the perfect home for you and your family may now seem too large or too impersonal. If you're on the fence about whether it's time for you to downsize your home, here are 12 signs that may point you in the right direction.

Maintenance is Becoming Overwhelming

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If the cost and physical activity it takes to maintain your property has become intimidating, then it’s likely time to downsize and find something with less overwhelming maintenance. While every home will occasionally require maintenance that lies outside your physical or financial comfort zone, if you’re regularly struggling to perform the chores required to maintain your property and your home has become a source of frustration, it’s time to find a solution. Homeownership should be a pleasure, not a source of physical exhaustion or mental anguish.

And the truth is that every home requires maintenance.

Empty, Unused Space

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Do you have multiple guest rooms collecting dust? A three-car garage holding just one car and an old bicycle? Why spend the time and money to keep unused areas clean and heated when they’re far more likely to collect junk than bring joy? Because that space isn’t just sitting there, it’s actually weighing you down financially and mentally. 

Unsustainable Monthly Expenses

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In addition to the price of maintenance, large homes can carry steep holding costs, which are generated simply by owning the property. Some homeowners see their tax burden rise dramatically as valuations increase, which can be especially difficult for those on fixed incomes. Generally speaking, a smaller home equals a smaller monthly expenses. Mortgage payments tend to be lower, maintenance costs are less, and utility expenses are almost always reduced. Combine that with the fact that many people get a financial boost when they downsize (more on that later!) and your month-to-month cost of living might drop dramatically in a smaller home.

If the thought of having lower month-to-month costs sounds like heaven on earth, then it might be time for you to consider downsizing. 

You’re Often Away From Home

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What’s the point in having a big, beautiful home if you’re never in it? Whether you’re traveling for business or pleasure, if you’re rarely home then the mortgage interest, taxes, and utility costs to maintain that property is almost money down the drain. If it feels like you’re not making the best use of your home, reconsider whether it makes more sense to downsize or to relocate to someplace more convenient.

Needing to Cash Out the Land Bank

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Earlier we mentioned that unsustainable expenses were an indicator that it’s time to downsize. But even if you’re doing fine, you may want to consider selling a home with a value that has risen steadily over the years. Maybe you want to set up your retirement, or maybe you want to cross some items off the bucket list. No matter what you want to do with it, take that money tied up in your larger home and make it work for you more directly!  

Fears about Aging in Place

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When a young family moves into a home, they often aren’t thinking about what it will be like in 20 or 30 years. But as you age, you may have to make tough realizations about how your body will hold up to the demands of your current home. We’re not talking about maintenance and upkeep (though those earlier points are important) we’re talking about whether the baths and showers have grab bars, how often you need to climb the stairs, and whether the doorways are large enough to allow for wheelchair or walker access. The aging in place movement helps seniors and disabled members of the community stay in their homes, and is perfect for those who’d rather downsize to an accessible home than go into an assisted living facility.

Emotional Agony

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Sadly, for some people the home they live in is a constant reminder of something they’ve lost. Empty nesters, widows or widowers, divorcees, even people who’ve lost a job may find that it’s time to scale down and move on.

Your home is literally the first thing you see when you wake up in the morning. If it causes more heartache than pleasure, take a moment to consider what it would be like to live someplace new. If that thought lifts a weight from your shoulders, then it’s likely time for you to downsize.  

Tax Advice

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When you talk to a tax accountant or financial planner, are you consistently getting advice that it’s time to address your home? While everyone’s tax situation is unique, if you are consulting with professionals and learning about the advantages of selling your home and downsizing, then that’s a good sign that it’s time to consider that move.

For most people, their home is the largest investment they’ll ever make.

A Growing Desire to Simplify Your Life

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One amazing facet of the late ’90s and early 2000s boom in large housing was that many of the people who settled in large homes ended up wishing that they had purchased or built a smaller home. In fact, a 2017 survey showed that a full 60 percent of people who lived in homes 2,000 square feet or larger said they hoped to downsize.

Some of that is certainly due to the financial considerations we discussed already, but some of it may also be driven by a more thoughtful mindset. Typified by the tiny house movement, some people seek to downsize in order to strip away unneeded complications and focus on what matters most. 

Major Life Change

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Dealing with major life changes often requires a change in setting or environment. When your family is growing, for example, it’s common to upsize your home to accommodate additional children, pets or extended family. But, sometimes a major life change is a sign that it’s time to simplify and downsize.

For many people this occurs at retirement. A change in life combined with fewer people in the home encourages downsizing. Other such events could include divorce, the loss of a loved one, a change in employment or a desire to chase a long postponed dream. Whatever the reason, if your life is undergoing seismic changes it’s time to consider whether your current home is the best match for your new situation. 

A Love of Design

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Big homes can certainly be beautiful homes. But if the quality of the craftsmanship that went into your home is of utmost importance to you, then chances are you would be happier in a smaller home, where the builders and craftspeople were able to spend more energy in perfecting the details.

It’s a simple fact that as quality increases, so does expense. That means that a large, truly high-quality home is extremely expensive. If you want to focus on the quality of the home and property, with emphasis on smart, meaningful interior design, decoration and landscaping, then a smaller home and property is probably a better fit for you.

Concern about Environmental Impact

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If your impact on the environment is a top priority for you, then downsizing may be in your future. Because, after all, if you care about the Earth but you’re consuming fossil fuels in order to heat and maintain a large property that you don’t use, let’s just say that your compost pile probably isn’t balancing out your gigantic, half-empty home. One of the most dramatic ways to reduce your carbon footprint and be a bit gentler with mother Earth is to downsize your home to the size that’s perfect for you.

HELPFUL TIPS FOR DOWNSIZING

Are you currently in a house with extra room to spare? Are you tired of cleaning those empty rooms whose only function seem to be collecting dust? Perhaps you’ve come to the realization that your current house no longer serves your needs. It may be time to start considering downsizing. Benefits of moving to a smaller space include cutting costs, less clutter to manage, and a more simplified lifestyle. But depending on the size of your current home, even the idea of downsizing can seem overwhelming. Here are a few tips to help keep the downsizing process manageable.

Start Early

It is really never too early to start downsizing. The process will inevitably take longer than you expect, so allow yourself plenty of time. Start early before a health crisis or financial pressure forces you to downsize. A relaxed time frame that allows for plenty of breaks will help make the process less stressful.

Start Small

Instead of picturing your whole house needing to be sorted, break up the process into small steps – room by room or even drawer by drawer. It can be tempting to start by tackling a large space like the garage or basement, but these spaces usually have acquired the most over the years and can quickly cause you to become burnt out in the process. Instead, start with a small space like a laundry room or hall closet that has little emotional attachment and less of a time commitment.

Understand Your Needs

What is the space like that you’re moving to? Are you moving from a house with four bedrooms to a space with only two? Will you no longer have an office? Make sure you are only keeping items that will be needed in your new space. If you’ll only have one bathroom, you can toss or donate that extra shower curtain or those multiple towel sets. Only take with you what will actually be put to use in your new space.

Get Rid of Duplicates

If you’ve lived in your current home for a number of years, it’s easy to let items accumulate and to lose track of what you’re storing. As you go through your items, you may find that you’ve been holding onto duplicates of items all this time. Most people do not need four spatulas or all those extra bedding sets. Donate the duplicates to other households who can put them to good use.

Make Piles

While sorting through items, make a pile for those items you will use in your new home and another pile of items you can sell, throw away, or donate. It’s tempting to make an additional ‘maybe’ pile for items you are unsure about or feel emotionally attached to. But creating this pile is often just a way of delaying the decision you ultimately need to make. It may be difficult, but try to be decisive about each and every item. Decide if you will realistically need or use the item in your new home or if it would be better to pass it on to someone who will use and enjoy it.

Consider Passing Down Heirlooms Early

If you’ve been planning on gifting special items as part of your legacy, consider giving them to your family members now. This will not only help you get the items off your hands, but you’ll find joy in seeing your granddaughter using your china or gifting your son that antique furniture piece he’s always had his eye on.

Ask for Help When You Need It

For some, the downsizing process seems so daunting that they don’t feel equipped to begin the process. But often times family, friends, a church, or other community groups are willing to help. Many services are available to make the process easier as well. Professional organizers and estate liquidators can help you sift through the clutter and remove your unneeded items. There are also senior move specialists that cater to helping older adults move into smaller homes or senior living communities.

Change can be hard for everyone, and for many, even the thought of downsizing seems overwhelming. But every journey starts with just a single step, so don’t be afraid to start small. You’ll soon be on your way to living a more simplified life, surrounded only by the items that you love. And that’s a very good place to be.